My Advocate Program
Most older adults want to stay in the home they know. According to AARP's 2024 Home and Community Preferences Survey, 75 percent of adults 50 and older want to remain in their current homes as they age.
For those aging without a spouse or adult children nearby, that desire carries added weight. AARP's research on solo agers found they are significantly more likely than their peers to worry about dying alone, about being moved somewhere against their will, and about a court appointing a stranger to make decisions for them. These are not rare anxieties. They are among the most common concerns solo agers report.
I built My Advocate Program to answer your concerns directly. After over a decade working in community based social services on, I have sat with people carrying exactly these fears, and I have seen what happens when no one is there to advocate on their behalf. This program exists to be that person: someone who documents what you want clearly, and stands with you when the system does not already know your name.
What I actually do for you
I become your Designated Person. That means providers, hospitals, and agencies know to call me first, not a stranger, not the court. It's documented, not just implied.
I build your Wishes File with you. This is the real record of what matters to you. Your medical wishes, who to call, what you want for yourself, your home, your pets, your keepsakes. Built once, so no one has to guess later.
I check in on the rhythm you choose. Weekly or every other week, whichever feels right. This isn't a wellness script. It's a relationship.
I build your Crisis Protocol with you. One page, kept on file, that says exactly who gets called and in what order if something goes wrong. So "someone to count on" isn't a hope, it's a plan.
If you want it, I help you build your circle. Light connection, between our check-ins, because staying connected is part of staying well.
Choose your level of support
Foundation, $65 a month. Your Wishes File built. Me as your Designated Person on file with your providers. A monthly check-in call.
Standing Partner, $125 a month
Everything in Foundation, plus check-ins on your schedule (weekly or every other week), your Crisis Protocol built and distributed, priority same-day response, and a daily wellness check.Circle Complete, $185 a month
Everything in Standing Partner, plus help building your circle of connection, a quarterly visit in person, and a yearly review of your Wishes File to keep it current.Daily Standing, $399 a month
Everything in Standing Partner or Circle Complete, plus a daily call from me. Built for the seasons that need extra closeness, right after a hospital stay, after a loss, or through a stretch of feeling more alone than usual.
Let's start with a conversation
Every member starts the same way, with a conversation, not a contract. We'll talk about what worries you most, and I'll help you find the level of support that actually fits.